Alexandra’s breastfeeding journey was far more challenging than she expected. She initially believed it would be natural and easy, but quickly realised the reality was much harder. She struggled with positioning and attachment, lacked proper guidance, and felt unprepared despite attending an antenatal class. The experience was emotionally and physically draining, contributing to her postnatal depression. She also faced intense sleep deprivation and frustration. Over time, things improved, but she deeply regretted not knowing more beforehand. Looking back, she gained immense respect for mothers who struggle with breastfeeding and now understands why some choose not to continue.
Alexandra
I’d planned to go to hospital, and I’d laboured all day. I’d sent my husband into work, obviously not husband at the time, but I’d sent him into work, I said, This can’t be it yet, you know, first babies take ages, and I just sat at home, watched telly, really relaxed, and you know, I know now looking back my labour was progressing beautifully, and I was just popping paracetamol and bouncing on my ball… read more